Changing You ... Changing Me ... Ahaaaaaaaa :-)

People always ask

What should I do?

Leave or stay?

'If I leave,
I leave all the negative ...
But also the positive.'

'If I stay,
I keep all the positive ...
But the negative stays.'

There is no getting out of this mental carroussel.

The only real think you can ask yourself is:

'What brings me Joy'?

'What is it in my here and know,
that I do love?
And what would I like to see more?'

All to often we want to change:

change the boss
change the job
change the partner

And although often it might end up that way,
if you do not do the changing work on yourself,
very soon, you will hit the same wall ...

If you are irritated ...
Lose the irritation!

If you are frustrated ...
Lose the frustration!

If you feel imprisoned ...
Choose freedom!

But that all starts in your head!

And nobody else needs to change
in order for you to do that,
in order for you to feel good.

Don't fight where you are.

It is just a reflection
of your beliefs about life
and about yourself.

So however negative,
it is showing you a great mirror
of where YOU need to change

So do that.

And let life itself do the rest of the work

Maybe you'll end up with the same partner
Finally having found love in yourself and in the other.

Maybe you and your ex will be going on dinner dates,
together with your new partners.

Maybe you got a fantastic joboffer
and left your horrible boss.

Maybe seeing your boss in a different light,
has made him see you in a different light,
and you are working happily together.

You will get everything you want
Don't worry
Just don't hold on, out of fear.
And don't fight, where you are now.

Focus on where you want to go
with no faces and places
but just on the feeling you wish to live.

Have a great day everybody!

xx

Saying Sorry

You don't say sorry for the sake of somebody else. If people think they need a sorry from you in order to let go,
in order to forgive
they themselves have got some work to do!

You don't say sorry for them,

you say it for you!

If you have done something that you are 'sorry' about,

adding guilt doesn't help keeping it from happening again!
On the contrary,
guilt makes it worse,
and will make sure it happens again!

No positive thing can be born out of hitting yourself on the head.

That is why we do not tend to hit our children anymore,
as a society we're getting there to see that this is not the right way.
Why would you use it on yourself?

There is nothing to feel guilty about.

Whatever you have done.
If it is something negative,
it is sure to be born out of something negative in you.

Some limiting belief.
Some lack of love.

That can only be healed with adding more love,

Not with more hurt.

More guilt.

Saying sorry is a signal to your own ego,
that what you have done,
is not what you choose to do anymore,
and that you would like to replace it
with a behavior that is more suiting to you.

It is healing,

and helps creating the new version of you.
It is setting a new intention
of who you choose to be.

So do it …

Not because you are guilty …

And certainly not because somebody else needs it …

Though many will think they do …

Do it for yourself …

And know that you will probably will have to repeat it a few times …

You’re only human! J

Looking forward to seeing your new version (s) :-) x

Why is this happening to me?

There is a very simple answer to that question:
Because you can rise above it!
People often think, that manifesting the life of their dreams means 'no more contrast'
but that is not true.
Are you still afraid of something?
No better way of letting it go, than to let it happen :-)
That doesn't mean however, that you 'have' to expierence 'bad stuff',
but if you are afraid ... you will ...
so that you can see there is nothing to be afraid of
and you can create even bigger afterwards.
Why this is happening?
Because something unconsious
some negative belief
some lingering drama
wants to be let go of
Because it is blocking you.
And you can't let go, if you don't see it
Therefore it manifests
So that you can see what you are doing internally
And do the proper adjustment in yourself
That is wat we mean with 'the world is your mirror'
an external fight is an internal fight
external miserie is internal misery
external fussing is internal fussing ...

Let us al bring it to that last level ...

Time to rise above the first two! :-)

Have a great day everybody!

Thankfulness

Sometimes it is good to
'just go back to the basics'

in the speed of our lives
we get so focused on where we want to get

and that is good

but more often than not
if we're thinking about where we want to go
and at the same moment look at where we are now:

'not there yet'

we lose our joy
we start to worry
and doubt
if it's all gonna be all right
if 'we're gonna het there'

and we start to wonder
if what we want,
is realy what we want

...

of course it is

because what you want
what we all want
is being happy
and the feeling that we're succesful in what we do

and that is a state of mind
a choise
made in the here and now

so if worry and doubt are starting to take over
go back to the basics
appreciate all that is well

here and now

appreciate all that you have done well

here and now

and soon

you will feel the tingling in your tummy again

life flowing through you again

and you'll be ready to go ...

to wherever it is you want to go

on you joyful journey that is life :-)

Have a great day everybody!