Changing You ... Changing Me ... Ahaaaaaaaa :-)

People always ask

What should I do?

Leave or stay?

'If I leave,
I leave all the negative ...
But also the positive.'

'If I stay,
I keep all the positive ...
But the negative stays.'

There is no getting out of this mental carroussel.

The only real think you can ask yourself is:

'What brings me Joy'?

'What is it in my here and know,
that I do love?
And what would I like to see more?'

All to often we want to change:

change the boss
change the job
change the partner

And although often it might end up that way,
if you do not do the changing work on yourself,
very soon, you will hit the same wall ...

If you are irritated ...
Lose the irritation!

If you are frustrated ...
Lose the frustration!

If you feel imprisoned ...
Choose freedom!

But that all starts in your head!

And nobody else needs to change
in order for you to do that,
in order for you to feel good.

Don't fight where you are.

It is just a reflection
of your beliefs about life
and about yourself.

So however negative,
it is showing you a great mirror
of where YOU need to change

So do that.

And let life itself do the rest of the work

Maybe you'll end up with the same partner
Finally having found love in yourself and in the other.

Maybe you and your ex will be going on dinner dates,
together with your new partners.

Maybe you got a fantastic joboffer
and left your horrible boss.

Maybe seeing your boss in a different light,
has made him see you in a different light,
and you are working happily together.

You will get everything you want
Don't worry
Just don't hold on, out of fear.
And don't fight, where you are now.

Focus on where you want to go
with no faces and places
but just on the feeling you wish to live.

Have a great day everybody!

xx