Saying Sorry

You don't say sorry for the sake of somebody else. If people think they need a sorry from you in order to let go,
in order to forgive
they themselves have got some work to do!

You don't say sorry for them,

you say it for you!

If you have done something that you are 'sorry' about,

adding guilt doesn't help keeping it from happening again!
On the contrary,
guilt makes it worse,
and will make sure it happens again!

No positive thing can be born out of hitting yourself on the head.

That is why we do not tend to hit our children anymore,
as a society we're getting there to see that this is not the right way.
Why would you use it on yourself?

There is nothing to feel guilty about.

Whatever you have done.
If it is something negative,
it is sure to be born out of something negative in you.

Some limiting belief.
Some lack of love.

That can only be healed with adding more love,

Not with more hurt.

More guilt.

Saying sorry is a signal to your own ego,
that what you have done,
is not what you choose to do anymore,
and that you would like to replace it
with a behavior that is more suiting to you.

It is healing,

and helps creating the new version of you.
It is setting a new intention
of who you choose to be.

So do it …

Not because you are guilty …

And certainly not because somebody else needs it …

Though many will think they do …

Do it for yourself …

And know that you will probably will have to repeat it a few times …

You’re only human! J

Looking forward to seeing your new version (s) :-) x